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Diapers, Doodles, and Deep Dives: Journaling for the New Mama

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Hey there, newbie mommy! If your life lately seems like a whirlwind of feedings, diaper changes, and precious (but oh-so-rare) moments of sleep, you're in the right place. Let’s add a twist to this new-mom cocktail: Journaling. Before you exclaim, "One more thing to do?!", hear me out. This isn’t another chore; it’s a lifeline! 1. Why Journal, You Ask? Between burping and bathing, your mind is filled with a million thoughts and feelings. Journaling isn’t just about recording baby’s firsts; it’s also about mom's millionth thought (or so it feels) of the day. It’s therapy, minus the bills. 2. No Rules, Just Write Your journal doesn't care if you write in perfect prose or hurried scribbles. Heck, it can even be a drawing or a sticker. It’s not an English exam; it’s an emotional outlet. Would you put that pressure on your kiddo? 3. Spill the Beans (or the Milk) Had a day when you accidentally used baby lotion as conditioner? Jot it down! These funny and re...
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Why Saying 'I’m Fine' Isn't Always Fine: Breaking the Maternal Mental Health Stigma

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Ah, the quintessential 'I’m fine'. We've all been there, haven't we? Whether it's from sheer habit or a conscious decision to avoid burdening others, 'I'm fine' often becomes our default response. But what happens when we keep bottling up our real feelings, especially when we speak about maternal mental health? We continue to perpetuate the Maternal Mental Health Crisis. 1. The Pressure to be 'Perfect' Motherhood, for all its beauty and wonder, also brings with it immense pressure. There's this unspoken expectation that mothers must always be composed, cheerful, and above all, self-sacrificing. But hey, spoiler alert: mothers are human too! Perfection is a myth, and striving for it can create unnecessary stress. 2. The Illusion of 'I’m Fine' By constantly responding with 'I’m fine', we unintentionally build a wall around ourselves. Over time, this can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness. Motherhood can be overwhelming...
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Mama, It's Not a Badge of Honor: Navigating Burnout with Flair! #MentalHealthAwareness

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Attention all mamas: we need to talk about the frenemy that sneaks up on us in the midst of our superheroic multitasking endeavors – burnout. It's like a ninja in yoga pants, ready to pounce when we least expect it. But fear not! In this blog post, we're diving headfirst into the world of burnout, arming you with the wit and wisdom you need to spot those sneaky signs and kick burnout to the curb. Because let's face it, you're a mama, not a burnt-out toast. 1. The Unmasked Superhero: Sure, you can do it all, but who says you have to? Burnout doesn't discriminate; it's an equal-opportunity exhauster. When you start feeling like you're a superhero without the cape, it's time to take a step back and acknowledge the signs that your cape might be in the laundry basket. 2. Coffee & Dry Shampoo Aren't Solutions: Coffee and dry shampoo are the unofficial mottos of motherhood, but they're not magical cure-alls for burnout. When your daily g...
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Bouncing Back at Your Own Pace: Embracing the Glorious #PostpartumReality

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Ah, the age-old myth of "bouncing back" after giving birth. As if our bodies are rubber balls that can magically revert to their pre-pregnancy forms in the blink of an exhausted eye! In this blog post, we're here to pop that pressure-filled bubble and remind you that embracing your own unique #PostpartumReality is not only okay but truly marvelous. So, let's ditch the speedy expectations and savor the journey of postpartum with a healthy dose of wit and wisdom. 1. The Marathon of Motherhood: Let's be real, giving birth is like running a marathon while juggling flaming torches. So, expecting your body to sprint back to its pre-baby shape is like asking a marathoner to break a world record while balancing a cup of tea. It's time we celebrate the victorious journey, complete with its ups, downs, and a handful of chocolate chip cookies. 2. Superpowers in Progress: Hey, new mom! Guess what? You just grew a human being from scratch. That's like baking a cake whi...
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Embracing Individuality: Unveiling the #MotherhoodTruths Beyond Sacrifice

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Motherhood is a journey that brings immense joy, love, and fulfillment. But in our quest to be the best mothers we can be, it's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that sacrifice is the only path to successful parenting. In this blog post, we're here to debunk that notion and delve into the importance of maintaining your individuality while navigating the beautiful realm of motherhood. So, let's put aside the myth of endless sacrifice and embrace the #MotherhoodTruths that celebrate personal growth alongside parenting. 1. Your Identity Matters: Becoming a mother doesn't mean letting go of the person you were before. You were a person before children, obviously?! Your passions, interests, and dreams are a part of what makes you unique. Embrace them! How else will your kiddo know how important it is to maintain your identity in life? Whether it's pursuing a hobby, furthering your career, or simply having 'me-time,' honoring your identity can hav...
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Unmasking the Veil of 'Baby Blues': The Real Deal with Postpartum Depression

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In a world where "baby blues" is often tossed around like yesterday's gossip, it's high time we peel back the layers and acknowledge the truth about postpartum depression. Buckle up, dear readers, as we embark on a journey to debunk the myth that belittles the profound rollercoaster that many women face during what's supposed to be a joyous journey into motherhood. Take a sip of reality from the cup of *Psychology Today*, where a study reveals that postpartum depression is like an iceberg – only a fraction is visible while the rest is submerged. The iceberg in this case isn't just a smidge of sadness post-birth, but a full-blown mental health phenomenon that's as real as your morning coffee cravings. But hold on, because here's where the "baby blues" brigade swoops in, attempting to downgrade the symphony of emotions women feel. Imagine that – reducing the epic saga of a mother's struggles to a mere elevator ding of mood chan...
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Motherhood Sucks

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Welcome to my little corner of the internet, where we peel back the pretty wrapping paper of motherhood to discover the not-always-pretty truth beneath. Let's call it 'Momhood Mayhem'. It's a place that's a bit like parenthood itself: funny, messy, and filled with more "What the heck?" moments than you can shake a dirty diaper at. It's also a safe space to say shit like "motherhood sucks," and not be shamed for saying so. I'm a pandemic mom, and no, that's not a new superhero title ( though it feels like it should be! ). It means I had my baby at the height of the global pandemic. Fun, right? If you think labour and birth are a walk in the park, try doing it with a mask on, in an eerily quiet hospital. Talk about upping the ante! I also had an emergency c-section after some crazy medical stuff happened, but we will focus on that story later! Motherhood is often romanticized, with images of glowing moms cradling their perfect newborns...
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